"People who are due when you said you are are NOT that big."

Friday, I went to this little fast food mexican place for lunch with my dad and Linda.  The place has been there forever, and upon entering we were greeted by the lady behind the counter, who I swear I remember from when I was a kid.  She was probably  a teenager working there then, and has obviously made a career of it.  From here on out, we'll call her "Taco Via".

While I placed my order, Taco Via stared at my belly.  While slightly awkward, this is something I've grown increasingly accustomed to in the last few weeks.  Then she asks,

Taco Via:  "When are you due?"

Me:  "November 6th."

Taco Via:  "Wow, you're really big.  That looks like it could pop any time."

Me:  "Well, sometimes it feels like it could pop."

Taco Via:  "Sometimes when I tell people they're big, they say it's cause there are twins in there."

Me:  "There's only one in here!"

Riiiiiiight.  Now, you might be thinking that was bad.  And, quite frankly, it was.  Luckily, I was in a good mood and not about to let Taco Via make me feel bad about myself. 

We went about our way, and ate our lunch.  At some point, I got up to get a refill on my drink.  Taco Via was now by the drink station doing whatever Taco Via's do between customers.  She then engages me in conversation yet again:

Taco Via:  "So, is this your first?"

Me:  "Yes."

Taco Via:  "Cause people who are due when you said you are are NOT that big."

Me:  "Well, we're all different!"....awkwardly smiling and thinking, is anyone else catching this?!?

Taco Via:  "Sometimes if it's their second or third baby they might be, cause they haven't lost all the weight from the first one."

Me: "....., yeah?"

And then, I honestly can't remember if anything else was said.  I looked up at a woman sitting in a booth nearby who's eyes were the size of saucers.  She quickly looked away, and I made my way back to our table.  My dad immediately told me not to pay any attention to her, that she's crazy. 

By the grace of God, I was in just the right mood that afternoon, that I didn't feel hurt by any of this.  I mean, really, it was so absurd that I could only laugh.  It was as though she was reading straight out of the "What Not to Say to a Pregnant Woman Handbook".  I'm not sure you could have scripted it to be worse.

That being said, dad, Linda and I had fun coming up with all the things I could have said in response.

For instance:

"Oh, and how far along are you?"

or

 "How many babies have you had, cause I can tell you haven't lost all the weight yourself"  {Taco Via is not a lean woman.}

or

{while smiling nicely} "You're so lucky I'm not kicking your ass right now."

I think the only thing that could have made it worse is if she'd tried to go in for a belly feel.  That is probably where I would have lost it.

What would you have said to Taco Via?

Store Closing {temporarily} August 24th...

I've known {and had displayed in my shop announcements} that I would be closing the shop around Labor Day for quite some time.  As my belly has gotten bigger and bigger, and I can now barely fit in the school desk that I paint at, I've decided......its' time.  One week from today, on Friday August 24th, jdavissquared's Etsy shop will be closing it's virtual doors for the remainder of 2012!  Such a bittersweet decision!  It's no secret that I love my little shop and all the great customers that find their way to me.  But, I'm also really excited to finish up my orders and then concentrate on all things baby! 

If you've had your eye on something in the shop, don't delay!  I have not set a date for re-opening, but I anticipate it being sometime early next year.  I'm looking forward to coming back in the new year with lots of new designs, and maybe even some new products. 

I'll still be around here on the blog, and on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram (@jdavissquared).

Thank you to everyone for your continued support!  Even though it's being cut short, 2012 was an amazingly successful year for jdavissquared on Etsy!

Glucose Test Day....

I have my glucose test today...wish me luck!  Seriously, if I am cut off from sugar, I might die.  I've had a bit of a sweet tooth as of late!  I'm hoping that means I'm primed and ready to digest this:

I've heard varying degrees of how disgusting this is gonna be.  The people I trust most say it won't be that bad.  But, they're probably the same people who try to make me feel better and not worry about it.....I'll keep you posted!  

I took the day off work so I could sleep in, and so I could have easy access to non-sugar, non-carb foods this morning so I don't throw off my results.  I'm getting ready to make some scrambled eggs.  After the blood work, we have a sonogram!  {Hooray!}  Cannot wait to see BabyD again, and catch a glimpse of the little person who's been bouncing around in there. 

After the sono, we meet with our Doctor, so we quite literally could be there all afternoon.  Seems like we always wait forever to see her.  But, that's okay, cause she is so great, and takes her time to answer any questions.  Plus, she's probably late from delivering a baby, and someday, we'll be the one's making her late to her appointments!  :)  Jon's mom is coming along for the festivities today.  I can't even remember the last time I saw her.  Might have been when we told her we were pregnant!  So, I fully expect to have my belly molested.  ;)

I'm actually 28 weeks today....I'll try to get a belly pic later today, depending on how cute/not cute I'm feeling, and I'll plan to post a bumpdate tomorrow with the results of today and some sono pics!  Eeeee!  I'm so excited to see that little face!  :)

Have you had a glucose test?  How bad was it?

Oh, and friends, we could use some prayers.  We're full blown into discussing care for this child after it's  born.  Mostly what going back to work looks like, and how that is all going to pan out logistically.  I do have a strong sense of peace, that God will guide us in the right direction for our family, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't anxious about it.  Thanks!

On the verge of nesting....

I'll be 28 weeks pregnant tomorrow.  28!  That means, I'm officially entering my third trimester, which completely blows my mind.  I guess I expected these weeks to crawl by, but they have just flown!

With time whizzing by, I've started  a few lists of things that MUST get done before this little one makes his/her appearance.  Some things are absolute musts, like getting registered at the hospital, and others are musts in my head, but probably not mandatory, like organizing the pantry.

My etsy shop has been showing steady growth all year {which is fantastic!} but it's going to have to go on the back burner for a while.  I've had an announcement on the front page for some time warning customers that I'll be closing down around Labor Day for the remainder of 2012, reopening sometime in early 2013.  As of this moment, I have 13 piggy banks, a growth chart, and a toy box to paint......yeah.  I'm busy!  Problem is, my attention is getting pulled more and more toward nesting!  Jon and I were discussing when to close up shop over the weekend. {Oh, it also doesn't help that I'm about 1/8 inch away from not fitting in my school desk that I paint at anymore.  Belly's getting big!}  I hate to close up the shop, because I love it so much!  And, I can't help but wonder if my customers will return in the new year after I'm gone for so long.

But, I also know that I need this time before BabyD comes to prepare not only our home, but my heart.  I need time to sit and contemplate this magnificent change that is coming.
To soak in this time with my husband.
And to scrub the crap outta every inch of this house.  

I'll be making a decision on the official closing date this week.  So, if you're wanting anything from jdavissquared in the next 4-5 months, you better get on over there!  ;)

Does anyone have experience with closing shop for an extended leave?  I'd love to hear your thoughts! 

25/27 week bumpdate....

Well, folks, the belly's getting quite large around here!  I actually didn't realize quite how big I am until I uploaded these photos.  I have to say, I'm a little shocked.....

Anyway, since it's been a while since I bumpdated, I thought I'd do some photos from week 25, and 27.  {I'm 27 weeks today!}

We were in Nashville at 25 weeks, and took the opportunity to take some pictures at the Gaylord Opryland Hotel.  Probably the most picturesque background we're going to get for bump pics.

(In case you can't tell, I was sweating profusely when these were taken....it was a wee bit humid in there!)

25....

Jon took these next ones last night.  Right after he took some other not so good ones, and I told him he's the worst picture taker ever, and to take them like Amanda......yeah.  Sorry about that honey!  These turned out great!  :)

They're taken in the nursery, which is coming along quite nicely, if I do say so myself.  I thought about showing some sneak peeks here on the blog, but I think I'll wait for a big reveal.  Still lots of love to pour into that space.  

27...

So now for the big question...."How are you feeling?"

You know, I get asked that about a gazillion times a day.  

I'm feeling good!  {A week ago I was answering with "great", but I'm thinking it's more good now.}

Nothing too uncomfortable going on.  I have had a couple days where I think I'm getting Braxton Hicks...at least that's what my friends have told me is probably happening.  My belly gets really tight, and I'm not in pain, but it is uncomfortable, and makes me just want to lie down and relax.  I've also been told this could be due to some dehydration....which is probably quite likely.  Drink up!  

Other than that, I've been feeling pretty good!  It's only just occurred to me that I'm beginning  my third trimester already!  It's absolutely insane to me how fast this pregnancy is going.   I had no idea it would fly like this.  In fact, I pretty much assumed I'd feel like crap the whole time, which, thankfully, has not been the case at all.  {knock on wood} I'd say, I've had a really great pregnancy so far.  Very thankful for that.  

BabyD is a little wiggle worm, I will tell you that!  Child bounces around in there constantly some days.  For some reason every time he/she kicks my hand, it startles me.  Yes, I'm a dork.  It's just so strong!  And deliberate!  Getting stronger every day too.  According to my app, baby is weighing in at about 2 pounds this week, which means, he/she is going to just about quadruple in size over the next three months...I can only imagine how crazy the movements are going to get! 

Also, my sweet friends are planning a shower for me in September, and I'm so excited!  Cannot wait to get together with all the special ladies in my life and celebrate this little person.   

BabyD, 
I'm getting more and more excited to meet you.  I can't wait to find out who you are.  Last night your daddy and I were talking about Christmas, and how exciting it's going to be to have you here to celebrate with us.  I have a feeling every day will feel like Christmas for a while.  I can hardly wait!  
Love, 
Mama 

This morning

The perfect turquoise wall in Nashville.  Snapped some pics for Amanda, cause I knew she'd love it!

This morning, I....

woke up to the most uplifting email from a good friend.  I can see God working in people's lives, and it's absolutely amazing.  I'm so lucky to have a team of friends full of faith!

 

was pondering what I want to be when I grow up.  Still haven't figured that one out. 

 

passed a nun in a PT Cruiser on the way to work......that does not happen everyday.

 

am trying to remember the details of a dream I had last night.  The baby was here, and it was squishy, and cute, and oh so sweet.  Only problem is I took it out in public and then misplaced it...{!!!} Stressful!  I'm trying to remember if it was a boy or girl.

am STARVING and wish I'd made some iced coffee for this morning.

 

 

What's up in your world?